I have to agree with everything of what Curt said. I have always hoped that concerned people would grow up, but more than ten years have passed and sadly, nothing changed.
Luckily, we still have the Jag events (Jagfests, Atari Connexion, etc.) to remind us the community is full of cool people who are willing to work with each others. On Internet, we have a few crybabies, they are only a few of them, but they cry so loud they damage everything.