Papa

Less Soap Opera ... MORE ATARI! or more Mother Love!

PS - don't forget to read the captions

As far as I can tell what you're experiencing isn't true love, it's infatuation. It happens sometimes when you've been in a monogamous relationship for a long time and it will pass. In the meantime just try to keep your priorities in mind, and remember why you decided to marry and raise a family with your wife. It might pass in a day or it might take weeks or months, but it will pass.

^ I say that as someone who experienced a similar feeling several years into my own marriage. Strong romantic feelings I didn't want to have for someone who hardly knew I existed, and though it sure felt like love I knew better than to confuse it for the genuine love that my wife and I share. The infatuation did pass after a month or so, but it was a pretty rough month. Stay true to your wife and you'll be glad you did in the long run, even if it does hurt a lot right now.