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She lives close to you then?

Have you ever seen this person? Or talked to her in person?

I would just play it cool and continue as you are.

If this online stuff is occuring everyday maybe someday something will come of it.

I wouldn't stress over it too much.

She'll either come around or not.

In the mean time if you are having fun chatting and playing games... That's a good thing. Why screw it up?

Yea, what Moycon said...

 

also... how long have you been talking to her online?

If you say 2 weeks I'm gonna come kick your @ss :D

(just kidding) but that would be my only guess as to why she wouldn't want to meet you yet

because you haven't actually been talking to her long enough?

 

How about giving her a phone number like, well if you wanna chat sometime give me a call!

She lives close to you then?

Have you ever seen this person? Or talked to her in person?

I would just play it cool and continue as you are.

If this online stuff is occuring everyday maybe someday something will come of it.

I wouldn't stress over it too much.

She'll either come around or not.

In the mean time if you are having fun chatting and playing games... That's a good thing. Why screw it up?

 

She lives about a hour and a half away. I've never seen or talked to her in person so that might be a disadvantage. I have seen a picture of her though.

 

I'll keep playing it cool.

 

She said she'd let me know when she feels comfortable meeting people again, which might be never. Oh well.

 

I'll keep it cool. I don't want to ruin it.

GIVE IT TIME.

 

Jesus, man, do not rush this or screw it up by getting ahead of yourself. Right now just be extremely pleased that you have someone who digs you and has interest in you. If she finds somebody else, thems the breaks, but one way to make sure she does find somebody else is to rush this. Let it move at its own pace. Her hesitation to meet you is a good sign she needs more time. Let her have it. Don't get clingy and needy, DO NOT COME ACROSS AS DESPERATE (even if you are, especially if you are). Take it day by day, be happy to converse with her, and let it be what it is. Let her dictate the pace here.

 

Swoon over her all you like, IN PRIVATE AT HOME, but when you are talking with her, be the cool guy, not the hungry guy.

 

GIVE IT TIME.

I'll try and give it time, Stan.

 

She made it clear that it was ok if I talked about this stuff and now I know to back off and just leave things the way they are. I'm not really worried much anymore.